Why are so many men and women out here treating commitment like it’s life or death? In this episode, I sit down with the king of dating advice- Ben Hart (@Bennyinc), for a brutally honest and wildly entertaining conversation about why men and women are terrified to define the relationship—especially in their 30s and 40s.

We talk ghosting, “not ready” red flags, emotional unavailability dressed up as casual vibes, and the chaos of dating in a major city when everyone’s been through at least one character-building breakup. He opens up about the fear of choosing wrong, the pressure to “have it all together,” and why emotional intimacy can feel scarier than sex.

Whether you’ve been in a year-long “situationship” or just want to scream into the void about dating apps, this one’s for you. It’s funny, painfully relatable, and might just make you rethink that “he’s just confused” text.

Listen if you’ve ever heard:

• “I’m just not ready for something serious right now.”
• “Let’s just go with the flow.”
• “I really like you… I’m just working on myself.”

Get ready for some hard truths, eye opening thoughts and let’s not forget the laughs.

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